Scripture Sets Aside Some Roles Specifically for Men
As radical as Jesus was, He did not choose a woman as one of his twelve apostles. Some people say that was because the culture of His day would not have stood for that, but Jesus never pandered to people's cultural sensitivities. We see this as another indication that there is a biblical pattern of male headship within which women are free to serve and minister.
Serving as an Elder
The New Testament gives no examples of a woman serving in the official capacity of an Elder. In 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1, where the qualifications for an Elder are set out, it is clearly assumed that these Elders will be men. Women serve as deacons, and deacons lead in their own right, but not in an overall governing sense like Elders.
This headship is not a reflection of ability or competence, but of the order of creation and the way each gender uniquely contributes to the image of God. So we believe it is clear that men alone are to serve as Elders in the capacity of primary authority in the church, and women who lead and teach ought to serve in a way that demonstrates respect for that headship.
Preaching
In 1 Corinthians 11 we see that women were free to pray and prophecy. However, Paul says (1 Timothy 2:13-1 & 1 Corinthians 14:34-37) that a woman is not allowed to "teach or have authority in the church." These words, which are to be taken together, describe the role of an Elder. This is not saying that a woman can never teach. We know from other Scriptures that women did teach in both the home and the church. It means that a woman cannot teach in an authoritative capacity that violates the principle of headship.
Elder-authority is servant-authority. Elder-leadership is servant-leadership. That's why teaching is at the heart of this calling. Elder-authority leads by persuasion — by teaching — not by coercion or political maneuvering. Elder-authority is always subordinate to Biblical texts. It can always be called to account by Scripture. Therefore teaching is the primary instrument of leadership in the church.
When the church assembles, there is a teaching and governing authority over the congregation which is reserved for men. In 1 Corinthians 11:2-16 Paul makes clear that the headship of man is to be displayed in the public worship of the church while he also affirms the appropriate public ministry of women in the church.
In our church, the exposition of God's Word from the pulpit is at the very heart of who we are. We view the pulpit as an expression of an Elder's teaching authority. Thus, we believe that women can and should use their gifts to publicly pray, read scripture, lead singing, or host on a Sunday morning, under the authority of the elders present. However, we would not have a woman be responsible for the preaching ministry.
Bible Teaching
We feel that it is inappropriate for a woman to be the Bible teacher in a mixed gender adult class where much instruction is carried out. We think Paul would have thought of this as included in 1 Timothy 2:12, "I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men."
Small Group Leader
We do not think it is appropriate for a woman to be a permanent leader or instructor of a mixed gender home small group or Bible Study, especially if the group regularly carries out pastoral care of its members and functions as a sort of mini-church within the church. This is because the leader of such a group carries a level of authority that seems very similar to the authority over the assembled congregation that Paul mentions in 1 Timothy 2. Given the frequently small nature of churches meeting in homes in the first century, and given the "pastoral" nature of the responsibility of leading a home fellowship group, we again think Paul would have thought of this as included in 1 Timothy 2:12, "I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men."
At the same time, it would be appropriate for a leader to ask a woman in the group to facilitate components of the time, such as prayer or discussion, under his authority.